The Art of Building Successful Relationships Part 2

In the Art of building successful relationships with PCW we consider the following two questions
1. What are you connected to?
2. What are you connecting to?
What are you connected to?
When we ask this question we are talking about everything you have in terms of resources. I’m not a massive fan of the term “resources” but in this case the term works really well. By this I mean resources in every sense of the word including skills, personal circumstances, essentially the cards you have been dealt in life.
What are you connecting to?
This refers to how you are connecting to other people and the world around you. This deals with how you pay attention, what you pay attention to and subsequent outcomes. This relates to all “activity” and including how you think, what you think and all sensory processing, state generation etc
In the previous blog I outlined two psychological types, “the cut and run” type tends to work in a more dissociated manner with a strong feeling of self-righteousness, the “appeaser” works in the opposite way and is essentially defined by those around them. As previously stated there are no “good” or “bad” types these are simply observations of human behaviour.
What do you want in your world?
Ultimately the question I pose to clients is “What do you want in your world and what is the outcome of that being in place?” The most successful people who form relationships whether in business or personal life appreciate that we can agree, disagree and agree to disagree on matters, it’s the discussion and dynamic interactions that make life all the more interesting! As Voltaire once said
“I do not agree with what you have to say, but I’ll defend to the death your right to say it”

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